Emily & Alfie

Emily & Alfie

Emily & Alfie

June 14, 2026

Couple sitting on vintage bicycle in wildflower field at sunset in the Cotswolds

Save the Date

We're getting married in the heart of the English countryside, and we'd love for you to be there. This page has everything you need to know – from the ceremony schedule to where to stay.

June 14, 2026

Ashwell Manor, The Cotswolds

Our Story

A library, a coffee, and five beautiful years later...

We met in Oxford's library, both reaching for the same book. Alfie was lost, Emily helped, and he asked her to coffee instead of finding his notes.

Five years later, he proposed on a freezing hillside in the Lake District. She said yes immediately. Now we're getting married, and we can't imagine celebrating without you.

Couple making heart shape with hands in countryside wildflower field

The Venue

Ashwell Manor

Set in twelve acres of Cotswolds countryside, Ashwell Manor is a Grade II listed manor house.

  • Historic honey stone manor covered in ivy - Ashwell Manor wedding venue
  • Outdoor wedding reception table set with natural linens and delicate flowers in garden setting
  • Tiered stone fountain decorated with white roses and greenery for wedding ceremony

Ashwell Manor, Upper Slaughter, Gloucestershire GL54 2JD

The Venue

Where to Stay

We've picked a few favourites within easy reach of the venue. Book early – June is peak season!

If you need help finding the right place to stay, feel free to reach out and we'll be happy to help.

Wild Rabbit

Charming country inn, five-minute walk from the venue.

Wild Rabbit

Charming country inn, five-minute walk from the venue.

Calcot Manor

Country house hotel with spa. Eight minutes' drive from the venue.

Calcot Manor

Country house hotel with spa. Eight minutes' drive from the venue.

Traditional Cotswolds cottage surrounded by rose gardens and countryside views
Floral summer dress on a wooden hanger by a window

Dress code

What to wear

We'd love for guests to dress in smart casual or garden party attire. Think summer dresses, suits, and light fabrics.

There's no strict dress code, so wear what makes you feel wonderful. The only rule? Leave the white dresses for the bride!

Schedule

Our day

Here's how the day will unfold. Timings might shift slightly, but we'll keep you posted.

Schedule

Our day

Here's how the day will unfold. Timings might shift slightly, but we'll keep you posted.

14:00

Ceremony

The ceremony begins at 2pm sharp in the walled rose garden. Please arrive by 1:45pm so we can start on time. Seating will be provided – feel free to sit anywhere.

14:00

Ceremony

The ceremony begins at 2pm sharp in the walled rose garden. Please arrive by 1:45pm so we can start on time. Seating will be provided – feel free to sit anywhere.

14:45

Champagne

After the ceremony, join us on the south terrace for champagne, Pimm's, and canapés while we sneak off for photos. Lawn games will be set up if you fancy a go.

14:45

Champagne

After the ceremony, join us on the south terrace for champagne, Pimm's, and canapés while we sneak off for photos. Lawn games will be set up if you fancy a go.

16:30

Dinner

A four-course British feast prepared by the wonderful team at The Wild Rabbit. We'll be serving local, seasonal ingredients – including asparagus from down the road.

16:30

Dinner

A four-course British feast prepared by the wonderful team at The Wild Rabbit. We'll be serving local, seasonal ingredients – including asparagus from down the road.

19:30

Cake & Dessert

Time to cut the cake! Followed by coffee, tea, and an obscene amount of petit fours.

19:30

Cake & Dessert

Time to cut the cake! Followed by coffee, tea, and an obscene amount of petit fours.

20:00

Dancing

The dance floor opens with our first dance. After that, it's all yours. Our DJ will keep things going until midnight – requests are encouraged.

20:00

Dancing

The dance floor opens with our first dance. After that, it's all yours. Our DJ will keep things going until midnight – requests are encouraged.

24:00

The End

The party wraps up at midnight. Taxis can be pre-booked, or there'll be a few on standby to get you home safely.

24:00

The End

The party wraps up at midnight. Taxis can be pre-booked, or there'll be a few on standby to get you home safely.

Gift Registry

Sharing our wedding day with you is what matters most to us. If you would like to give a gift, a contribution towards our honeymoon would be greatly appreciated.

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RSVP

Will You Be There?

Please RSVP by April 30, 2026, so we can finalize numbers. We can't wait to celebrate with you!

Engaged couple standing with vintage bicycle in Cotswolds countryside flower field

Questions?

Here are answers to a few questions we've been asked. If you need any help, just send us an email!

Questions?

Here are answers to a few questions we've been asked. If you need any help, just send us an email!

When should I RSVP by?

Please RSVP by April 30, 2026. This gives us enough time to confirm final numbers with our caterers and create the seating plan.

Can I bring a plus-one?

We've indicated on your invitation whether you have a guest included. If you're unsure or your situation has changed, just drop us an email and we'll sort it out.

Are children invited?

We absolutely adore your little ones, but we've planned an adults-only celebration. We hope this gives parents a well-deserved night off! If childcare is an issue, please let us know and we can try to help arrange something locally.

What if it rains?

We have a beautiful marquee as backup, so the party goes on regardless! If there's a chance of rain, we'll set up covered walkways and have umbrellas on hand. We're English – we're used to it.

Is there parking at the venue?

Yes! There's free parking on-site at Ashwell Manor. Follow the signs when you arrive, and our ushers will direct you.

Get in Touch

Have a question we haven't answered? Want to chat about travel plans or anything else? We'd love to hear from you.

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